#30 PSYCHOLOGICAL GAMES - and how you stop playing them

You know that you have entered the incredibly vast, intricate and devious realm of psychological games when PLAYING is anything else but FUN. 
We all have been there. 
That moment when you realize that you have been sucked into someone else’s malicious plot. 
You feel tricked, betrayed… and stuck AF. Coz no matter in which direction you might move - someone will get hurt, something will break. 
You have been set up to FAIL.

According to Eric Berne, founder of Transactional Analysis, we play games in order to get a core need of ours met. Games enter the arena when just SAYING what you want seems to be off the menu and we are convinced our desires can only be fulfilled through INDIRECT manipulation. 
And, yes - you guessed it. Those (clearly subconscious) behavioral patterns are one of those ghosts haunting us from our early days on the planet. 

In this weeks episode I will thus use the perspective of Transactional Analysis to talk you through what PSYCHOLOGICAL GAMES are, what makes them so painful for everybody involved, why we play them in the first place and most importantly - HOW TO GET OUT of such dynamics!!

Get your needs met baby. Stop the games! 

 

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