#27 HOW TO LISTEN DEEPLY

We all know that there are galaxies between the involuntary perception of those hissing sounds bubbling out of someones mouth in the form of words and actually extracting MEANING from this noise. 
MEANING that when woven in the service of wanting to understand someone or something deeply can lead you through the labyrinth of chatter to the core of a matter. The underlying cause, drive, motivation, need, desire…

And this is crucial if you are leading a team, if you want to connect to a partner or are creating a solution for a real human problem. 

You don’t wanna act on or solve for WHAT somebody says. 
But on what actually drives them. You want to get to the underlying need - which might be hidden to the person you are dealing with themself!
And for that you gotta learn HOW. TO. LISTEN. DEEPLY. 
…You need to find that read thread first to release Ariadne. 

It has everything to do with from which SPACE and with which MOTIVATION you are listening. 
Our brain is a powerful filtering machine, that when gone unchecked will discard any bit of information that does not have to do with our own survival…
So yes - you can easily hear gazillions of brilliant people speak without ever learning anything NEW (That’s how powerful our mind is). 

Listen on to this weeks episode to hear more on how to break the SPELL and on how to find the loose end of, following and weaving MEANING with the red thread.

 

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